How should I handle this?

Blitzkrieg

Ok.. there's this girl. Really nice, sweet girl. Problem is, I'm not attracted to her AT ALL. She wants me really bad though and its kinda my fault for not letting her know right away I wasn't interested. I've changed in many ways recently, I don't want to hurt the poor thing..

I need to let her know I'm not interested but it a nice way where she can move on and not get all upset. Like I said, I've really changed, normally I wouldn't give a shit. I'm not good at these types of things so I need your help..

How do I do it?

I can't listen to my friends because they are all kinda like.."who gives a fuck" types..

Danny Diamond

Founder/Admin

Start talking about other girls that you are or are pretending to be interested in around her. Maybe she will politely get the hint.

Erin

Monk's First Lady

Simon that's actually a really good idea.

The thing is, there isn't a way to do this and not hurt her. Rejection hurts, but it's something we deal with. I would wait to see if anything comes out of it at all. Just try gradually blowing her off. I do it all the time.

Miakal

Tell her you just got out of a bad relationship and don't feel like you can be close to anyone right now. Tell her she's a great girl and that you don't want to hinder her in anyway by continuing on like there's some sorta future.

Then a few months from now have sexual intercourse with her better looking friends and have her kick the shit out of you.

Tyler Durden

Don't say who told you, but say one of your friends (not her's) has told you that you've been paying her a lot of attention lately.

Tell her you may be completely out of order, but you're "friend" says it looks like you're trying to score her instead of being her friend.

Tell her that you don't want to lose being friends with her just because of a misunderstanding. Say "I'm really cool with us being friends, and with you, but I don't want you thinking I'm trying to score you when I'm not. I don't want that to get in the way of the good times we have"

Then, change the subject pretty quick, and make certain you don't then act like a bit of a jerk to her or act any differently to her.

The reason for this is, not just to spare her feelings, but because women talk. A woman that hears you were a jerk to another woman just because she liked you will likely not be climbing on the Brandon Express any time soon. A woman that hears how well you handled this, well she's likely to think "mmm that Brandon sure knows how to treat a lady!!"

It's all about the future man!!

Blitzkrieg

Thanks guys and Erin. I'll try to put some of this to use. I might see her later today so we'll see how it goes..

Then, shamely.. I'm going to go over this whore's house (see thread at JVN) and probably screw her instead..

God, is this bad?? I'm an asshole.

K Jay

Nut up, nail her, get rid.

I had a sig, once.

Mikk

WC's Sexy Beast

As Homer Simpson once said:

It takes 3 little words, I AM GAY!

Jackie Pies

who gives a fuck. and Mikk's right; that's what I was gonna say. Or that you have a sexual disease. Or that she's starting to look like she's put on some "winter weight".
Either way she's going to hate you b/c you don't like her and she's going to feel like an ugly cow. There's nothing you can do. Telling her you like other girls will crush her. Telling her you're not trying to score will make her think you've thought about scoring w/ her. You can't win.

Mr. WikipediaSpamBot

Hahahaha, I say go with Mikk's suggestion just for the hell of it. Maybe you can say you are coming off a bad relationship and not interested in getting into another one yet(unless she knows that's not true).