What would you do if you were me?

Blitzkrieg

Administrator

I haven't done this in a while..Keep in mind, I'm probably going to do what I like anyway, but I always like to ask for a little advice from everyone, including my fellow Monkers.

So.. I ran into this girl I went to high school with a week ago.. Jayman, Mr. Cool, I think Terry, they all know who I'm talking about. Her name is Jennifer aka Tom Brady jersey girl. Now I hadn't spoken to her in a good while, but I've always thought she was cute.we're friends on Myspace and crap. But, I saw the opportunity so I went over and started talking to her. We were hanging out at the sports bar, drinking, what have you.. and we're supposed to hang out, her friends, my friends sometime soon, probably next weekend after Easter and all that..

But I'm skeptical. I don't want to get obsessed over this girl because my relationships always go sour, for whatever the reason, something fucked up always seems to happen.. and I'm concerned through rumors, and I know it's only rumors, but I hear she's a bit of a golddigger (sp?) looking for a free ride. I have no proof of this, but it's what a lot of people say..

How do I handle this situation? I'm pretty much beyond the whole looking for random girls thing, I think she's very attractive, but I don't want to come out of this feeling like an asshole..

Give me some pointers. Anything. I want to hear what you have to say.

Zar333

I say give it a chance sir. If she is a golddigger then bail. If not then rumors are just rumors and who gives a fuck.

If you give it a shot at least you will know if it was worth it. The worst thing that happens is that you have to end it.

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Necro

VIP Room Moderator

Just dont pay for anything, and see what she does hahha...

Dakstang

MMA Moderator

It depends on what you consider a gold digger.

I still think it is appropriate for the guy to pay for everything on dates for example, but if she starts asking you to pay her car payments or something, then you have a problem....lol

I say go for it and see how it goes. Tom Brady jersey girl is hot.

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You keep on beatin' that old dead horse
You know they lied about why we went to War
I can't take it no more

Suntan Superman

WC's Resident Samoan

And that's basically my view point on it as well.

Blitzkrieg

Administrator

Yeah, I just want to be really careful here.. I think I have a shot at something great, but I don't want to fuck it up myself and I also need to know what I'm trying to get into here..

We're not chilling this weekend, too much crap going on with Easter and what have you, but probably next week.. I pray.

Inogenius

Politics Moderator

Did she previously date older men? If not, she wasn't a very good gold digger.

Go for it. You'll know by the first date -- and judging by the girls looks, even if she is a gold digger, you should be able to get some the first night out. And that's all that really matters for people like you and I!

Blitzkrieg

Administrator

Not older as in old, older as in for example, when she was 19 or so, she'd be dating guys who were late 20's-early 30's, what have you.. but I don't think it's going to be much of a problem, we'll see. If I'm going to be a 100 percent honest about this, even if it doesn't work out, as long as I sleep with her, I'll be happy

Inogenius

Politics Moderator

I'll be proud of you.