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You're a hard habit to break
Thank you "Chicago" (and continuing my threads based on 1980's song titles)
Anyway
Before I "wedded" and find contentment and bliss beyond my wildest dreams.....!!.....I was in a position where I had the opportunity to get back together with a girl that I had been engaged to for 3 years as a lad.
Looking back now, I think it was a combination of things. Partly laziness, since it would have meant going back to something I knew, something that had been good for quite a while, and partly we'd just gotten together way too young in the first place, so a few years later it still had some interest/potential!!
But what are your experiences of this, both your own and what you've seen from your friends?
Is going back easier/harder? Is it a good thing? Is it laziness!!
I now, yes, NOW try to live by the phrase "Never Go Back" I say now, cause as some of you know, a couple of months ago, i tried going back - its hard as hell and in my experience, doesnt work in the end, cause ultimately you want to go back to how you were and to be with the person that they were back then, but things have moved on, both you and them have changed as well as your circumstances, what you had doesnt exist anymore.
If you both like the people you are now and are able to cope with any other relationships they may have had while you were apart then, by all means go for it, it might work.
Just remember, you broke up for a reason, and its likely that that particular problem or issue will still be there.
Yeah i've had bad experiences with one of my exes at first. We were unsure after we broke up wheteher we were getting back together or not, even when we had found other partners, so it was a horrid time, that almost led to yours truly getting his head stomped in...and rightfully so. But eventually we decided that kinda relationship wasnt for us, and now we're really good friends.
I wish my sex life was like ECW, first you get a One Night Stand followed by 2 months of nostalgic orgasms and then 6 months of constant sucking.
I have no real experience with this at all, but I'm sure it would be hard to go back, since you did break up there must have been a problem, and that problem more than likely will still exist. Once you break up, things just change, and it will be hard to get back into the old ways
According to my (hot blonde American) church minister, "never ever have sex with an ex because it's guaranteed to be the best sex you've ever had and then you're screwed."
If you both like the people you are now and are able to cope with any other relationships they may have had while you were apart then, by all means go for it, it might work.
Just remember, you broke up for a reason, and its likely that that particular problem or issue will still be there.