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Old 12-06-2006, 09:33 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Dealing with unwanted advances!
How do you deal with it? Does it matter if the person is a friend or not, would that change how you would deal with the horn dog?

Basically, how do you deal with it if you're chatting away enjoying yourself at a party (or wherever) and all of a sudden a member of the opposite sex starts groping you, or even trying to shove their tongueage down your throat??!!

Do you push them off? Do you try not to hurt their feelings? Do you blame yourself for them getting the wrong idea? Are you weak and let it go and just think I'll deny it in the morning!
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Old 12-06-2006, 09:40 AM   #2 (permalink)
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It is something known as the pimp slap my friend... lol

To be honest I just don't put myself in position where someone will make that move. And I also draw those lines without really having to say "hey I won't sleep with you... don't try" But if someone did make a move I would just tell them I am involved, I'm not interested and then walk away...
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Old 12-06-2006, 09:43 AM   #3 (permalink)
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This generally happens to me on the dance floor - some random guy thinks the wa to your heart is to come up behind you and start groping you! Let me tell you all, it is not! If this happens I usually just grab his hands and take them off me. If this doesnt work and he carries on I just walk away. Which, yes, is rude but IMHO theres nothing ruder than just randomly grabbing someone!

If it ever happens when Im sober, I just say sorry but no. Usually thats enough, but some guys stil push it further, then you have to get physical which I really hate. I never blame myself for leading them on, cause evn if they think i am, its still no excuse for abandoning politeness.




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Old 12-06-2006, 09:47 AM   #4 (permalink)
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In addition then, what if it was a dude putting the moves on you (or a girl if you're, you know, a girl).
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Old 12-06-2006, 10:50 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Oh.. I have no trouble with this. When I go out I'm usually with someone, at least one person who is just looking for the easiest skank he can find, so if a girl starts up with me and I'm not at all interested... Just introduce her to him and walk away. Everyone goes home happy.
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Old 12-06-2006, 10:53 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I've only had it happen once and I had to flat out tell her no thanks I'm involved with someone and I love her.

Most people now get the hint that i'm married and dont even try. lol
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Old 12-06-2006, 06:13 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I either get one of my female friends to come up and talk/dance with me or I just go and wonder around the club and I usually lose them.
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Old 12-06-2006, 06:18 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I've had to deal with a chick like this once, it was real uncomfortable. I had to tell her to back off several times...
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Old 12-06-2006, 07:26 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Well I have no problems anymore, but when I used to go out girls would flock to me like flies on shit. I'd get a copy of their ID's, and get a restraining order on them. It seems that no girls are allowed to any bars or clubs around here any more, I'm not sure why. Oh well. And as far as guys go, well, believe you me, that's no longer a problem either. In fact, whenever I go out, it seems that I have free range of the place, the bar, the dance floor, and the DJ booth. Hrmm, makes ya wonder.
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Old 12-06-2006, 07:39 PM   #10 (permalink)
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A bunch of chicks grouping you...who wouldnt want that???
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