Dealing with unwanted advances!

Beaker

I'm taken there buddy, I need no others

U MAD

Necro

VIP Room Moderator

lol i've never had the problem of chicks flocking to me...

Gigglypuff

Lol, doesnt have so much these days. Im going through a particularly dry spell! But there was one amazing time, me and my friend went onto a very sparse dance floor, we were dancing, minding our own business when one guy came up to us, we werent interested cause we were both taken at the time and danced the other way, straight into the arms of another guy! So we kinda squeeled and turned the other way, where another guy was approaching. We felt so wanted! But has never ever happened again - it was awesome. lol

In short, I follow Phantom's advice and just walk away.

Chewy

I've had this a advance on me a couple of days ago (and a haft a dozen times from the same girl in previous weeks) and she was all trying to score with me and shit. I already told her in the past that I don't want anything to do with her, she took that as a try harder remark....shes not the prettiest (hell, I think the inside of a cows A Hole is prettier) girl on the block, but if she tried someone else, she could make another man happy. Why does she keep on getting shot down from me and take that as a try harder remark?

Griff0rd

TNA Moderator

She probably sees it as a bigger challenge and thinks the payoff would be that much better. I know guys ( not my friends ) that go after married women exclusivly for this reason... SOunds like it may be a similar thing here

Chewy

Actually since you put it into those words I can relate with some of my friends too. Its funny how that works.....I guess i'll just have to break her heart into a million pieces....hope I have the heart to be that mean.

Gigglypuff

Youre not being mean. If you've told her plenty of times and shes not taken the hint then thats her fault!

She must be a glutton for punishment though, if a guy rejected me h wouldnt see me for weeks, cause Id be hiding whenever he came near me! lol

Erin

Monk's First Lady

It depends on the guy. If I'm at the bar and dancing, I will usually just tell them off if they're being a jerk. Or just start flirting with someone else. The key is to stay with your friends, they can usually help you by pulling you away, and the guy gets the hint. It also helps that the group I hang out with alot is the guy's rugby team. No one messes with us when they're around.

If it's someone who is a nice guy and I'm just not interested, I just try to be as unapproachable as possible. That way they usually go away and find someone else to be interested in.

Gigglypuff

You hang around with the guys rugby team?? Im so jealous, I love rugby guys! lol

Erin

Monk's First Lady

Yeah. My best friend is dating one of them, and I eventually just got integrated into the group of girlfriends and attractive, fun girls they enjoy having around.