Breaking Down that Sexual Barrier

Reilly

What the hell is with girls sometimes?

OK so if you get caught in that 'friend' zone for a long period of time, its kindof hard to break out of it. So you have to work at it a bit, try and twist them round, unsure of whether they'll go for it, you wouldnt want to wreck the friendship at the same time.

And then, if it does happen, and you finally hook up with her, suddenly the tables completely turn, and you get absolutely sick of her. She went from kindof ignoring me, to finding out I like her, and now annoying me, most of the day. Visiting like 2 or 3 times, constant texting, checking up, christ

It seems like this with lots of situations I've seen, and its a real headfuck. Here you are trying desperately to get something, thinking of how it'd be pretty great, and when it happens, you desperately try to get rid of it.

One word.

Women

Give it time

thirty7

It sounds like you just love the thrill fo the chase man. The thrill of the unattainable. And then when you do get it, you want a new challenge. A lot of people are like that, whether it be subconscience or not. Tis a habit you will grow out of, if you find the truly right person.

I wish my sex life was like ECW, first you get a One Night Stand followed by 2 months of nostalgic orgasms and then 6 months of constant sucking.

Reilly

Its a good point, but I've noticed it happens to a lot of guys around me, like most of them.

It must have been a subconcious thing, me thinking that I really liked her, because she is good to talk to, pretty, interesting and everything, as in, theres nothing wrong with her at all, but not enough to sustain all of my day and nightime. Jeesh.

Give it time

thirty7

Yeah, i think we as males have that programmed into us for a short period of time throughout our lives. I mean if she isnt worth all of ure daily, nightly and ever so rightly (Scrubs quotes are cool), theres no harm in trying to be casual with her at all. You wouldnt want to lead her on more so from this point where she has found feelings for you.

I wish my sex life was like ECW, first you get a One Night Stand followed by 2 months of nostalgic orgasms and then 6 months of constant sucking.

Blitzkrieg

Young Eric nailed it. The answer I mean. Dudes (including me) always want things that they don't have (including women) and then when they get it it's like.. Ahh.. What else is there?

We need new shit. All the time. Until we get old enough not to care. Case in point, I just got an X-Box 360 last week and I'm already sick of it.

I have a nice girl that I'm pretty happy with, but I think about the old one.. that was loud and obnoxious and an alcoholic. Fuck me.

Tyler Durden

Women are a lot simpler than you guys are making them out to be.

For example, I'm reliably advised by women that I still know now and used to many years ago that I was way too politically correct and "nice" for them back then. Quite frankly there was a lot of shagging for me to have if I'd have been acting like a guy that would have just wanted shagging. However, I was going around acting like I thought women wanted me to act.....making out I wanted a relationship and that it wasn't just sex....the whole "nice guy" act.

The moral of this story is, women are just guys without dicks

K Jay

Simplified Version : It doesn't eat grass.

I had a sig, once.

Tyler Durden

What the hell are you talking about now? You really did finish therapy too soon!!

K Jay

It's a meat-eater, it doesn't eat grass.

I had a sig, once.

Tyler Durden

May I apologise to all US viewers for the "dumbing-down" of this thread from this side of the atlantic.

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