can you be trusted?

Jackie Pies

in your relationship(s)? unless you're Mr. D of course and we all know already, haha.
so I always just assumed that Craig doesn't completely trust me not to cheat- I mean he knows my past and he knows my father who I take after quite a bit and he knows that I like to look. (all that being said, I have Never cheated on Craig, just so there's no questioning.) Then on Friday I went out for a few drinks and he went over to a friends. he never even asked who I was going out with, and he knew it was a guy b/c I referred to the person as him. (now it was just my boss, who I hang out and drink w/ from time to time and is not anyone I would ever cheat with even if the other option was death)
anyways, this story got long, the point is Craig just completely trusted me on it and didn't question me. and no he's not cheating either b/c he called me to ask when I'd be home and I heard his friend yelling in the background and Craig just doesn't seem like he's anxious to cheat. we're usually together at all times when not at work/school. this was our first about 3 hours apart otherwise in months.
on the other side I do not completely trust Craig although figure I should, but I believe I mentioned in the other trust thread D.T.A.
so
Does your girlfriend/boyfriend trust you? should they?

Tyler Durden

Haha, when you're as damn ugly as me trust is a given!!!

There has to be an upside to looking like this.

Invictus

My girlfriend trusts me a lot and I trust her, she likes to go out clubbing with her friends and I seriously detest any form of nightlife apart from a good gig. I see no reason why shed cheat on me and like wise I don't have the balls to cheat on her.

Tyler Durden

On a slightly different trak (and in line with the above), I've known a lot of guys that are real possessive with their g/f's and they get cheated on more (in my experience) than the non-possessive one's.

Girls always do stuff they're told not to do!!

AudioSavior

Ya, I usually don't like and have never cheated. They both are a shitty thing to do really.

Dr. Giganto

I've actually been pretty good about staying loyal recently. The only time in the last 4 months that I kissed a girl besides my girlfriend was one night when we got into a fight and I was mad at her. But I felt bad about it afterwards.

In these last 4 months, three girls at bars have given me their number, and I haven't called any of them. One of them was really hot too.

Goofball

No. I am a cheater. I just cant help it. Plus I dont see anything wrong with a guy cheating...seriously. But if a girl cheats, then she is a SLUT. Thats just dirty.

Miakal

I'm usually very trusted up until the point they find out I've been cheating.

Once in a while, with certain girls, I have a lot of trouble trusting them. I have no idea what it is. It usually doesn't have much to do with their likeliness of cheating, in fact it seems the opposite.

Jackie Pies

I know what you mean. I've had this feeling before w/ Craig. but I think by this point in our disturbingly long courtship, that's no longer the case. now it's just a I'll never trust a man not to cheat, even if it doesn't happen for another 20 years, I still figure it'll happen. I just usually try not to think about it but I was kinda surprised that Craig seems to trust me completely.

Miakal

Yeah, one time I went out to a bar with this chick (while I was seeing another girl) and this girl was shouting to everyone how she was going to take me home and fuck me wild. She made out with me. She bite me several times. Etc.

At the end of the night I departed ways and went home by myself. I thought for sure my girlfriend would be pissed. NOPE!!! Didn't care at all.

Then like a few months later she would go out with a guy, he'd buy her drinks, and she'd go home with him after bartime (not to fuck him, just to hang out but...) and I was pissed off. I couldn't take it.