Would you cheat?

Blitzkrieg

Administrator

I know some of you on here are married or have long-term girlfriends/boyfriends...

If you had the chance to get with the woman/man of your dreams (Hottest EVER!! blah, blah), do you think you would do it?

Probably not, huh? You see..that's how I can tell I've never experienced this thing called "being in love" because I would cheat on anyone I've ever dated in a second with the most physically attractive person I could find.

Joe Cool

Administrator

I'm going to be honest and frank here, and I will say absolutely not.

I would rather cut my own dick off then cheat.

I had an offer before I got married from an old friend who wanted to be with me for one night. She is older (39) a former women's underwear model and drop dead beautiful looks. I believe I've told this story before in another thread but i turned her down flat.

I love my wife to the point of where cheating does not enter my mind. Sure you can look at another woman and appreciate how good looking she is but I would never sacrifice the love, bond, and commitment we made together for something like that.

I realize my attitude is a rarity in today's world but I would not have committed to marriage if I didn't know in my heart and soul that I can honor that pledge of love forever.

Blitzkrieg

Administrator

Nah..I'm sure a lot of people on here agree with you, if I was in love with somebody (or maybe if somebody was in love with me) I'd probably feel different.


However, I have never cheated.

Disco Raheem

I have cheated. Lot's of times.

I have been cheated on. Lot's of times.

I have knowingly helped females cheat on their partners (Sometimes I have been friends with these partners). Lot's of times.

I'd like to think if I met the woman of my dreams I wouldn't cheat on her, but I probably would. I've been right into girls, really wanted something long and serious, but I cheat on them.

I just like sex.

Justin Zane

I'd fuck the shit out of the other chick.

Mr. Kennedy

Yes I would, but i've never been in a really deep relationship and i'm still really young(turning 19 on September 2nd) so things may change.

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Tyler Durden

Well I wouldn't cut my dick off first (jeez Spidey I'm trying to drink my morning coffee here!!).

I'll give you an analogy Brandon.

The weekend I really (at last) got together with my eventual wife I was on top of the world. I was doing that dance in the rain that Ross in Friends did when you knew he'd got some the night before with someone who actually meant something to him!!

But the weekend finished real quick and I was on a work course that Monday-Friday about 100 miles away. I was pretty low down there and just wanted to be back home, there were a few people that knew me (or knew of me) and had been expecting us to be out every night having a good time but I was just running up my hotel telephone bill every night calling home!

Anyway it got to Wednesday night and in a mad moment I drove all the way home to just spend a few hours with my lady! So on Thursday I was pretty good again....back to my old self and that was the night of the end of course drinking/nightclub session and boy was I back up for one of those, all the while thinking I saw my woman last night and tomorrow I'll be home again....everythings sweet, lets go party.

And I had a great time. Now there were two girls on the course (one I worked with and one was from Scotland) and I'd been dancing with them and just goofing around trading stories that kinda stuff and it ended up with the three of us going back to the hotel in a cab (we were all staying at the same one). In the reception the girls had been saying "we know your room number David, we'll come up with the condoms in a few minutes" and I'm like "yeah, yeah I can't wait!!".

So I get in my room and switch on the telly....five minutes later theres a knock at my door. I answer it and both girls are there with their hands full of condoms!! They walked past me and I was just laughing really and thinking....they are still kidding yeah??

So the upshot is they put porn on my hotel tv and with me sat on the edge of the bed thinking "how the f*** did this happen?" I'm looking in the mirror opposite and their behind me on the bed kissing each other and undoing blouses!!

Know I've no idea where this came from....nerves, being in love, being a complete *****....but with one of them (Michelle) undoing the buttons of my shirt and kissing the back of my neck I.......turned them down......that's right flat out said "no, this isn't for me".

If it had been a week earlier I'm sure I'd have been at them and finished in about seven and a half seconds.....but my heart was in a completely different place. I wasn't even particularly interested, and one of them was very cute too and the other at least bangable.

Now if that is "love".....I don't know, but it was certainly a test. I'm guessing that's what stopped me because I know damn well it was a bit of a personal dream of mine!! So would I cheat....I guess none of us know till the situation arises.....sure we all think about it, but would we go through with it?? I wouldn't have thought so, though I am told that I still flirt shamelessly!

Funnily enough I told my wife this story a few years later. I was kind of expecting her to think more of me for being tempted and turning it down.....she said "jeez, you should have banged them" (I think she was kidding....though sometimes I cry about it a little now and then!!).

Blitzkrieg

Administrator

Jesus Christ..That's a damn good story. I'm guessing that was "love" that stopped you because if I were in the same situation there is no way I'd turn it down, simply because I don't have anyone I care about. seriously, I'm still at that point in my life where marriage or even a long lasting relationship is like BS to me..

I sit there and think about marriage, and for me it doesn't make sense, I just don't know if it's because I've never "loved" or because I'm an asshole or what.

It's always.."why stick with her, when there are more out there to get"....That's been my whole thing for the longest time. I'm guessing it's because I never really liked any girl for more than just her being there and me wanting a piece.

I'm guessing things will change as I get a little older.

Disco Raheem

What a gay, gay story Bulldog. I knew you'd reveal your true colours eventually.

I cheat a lot, and I usually feel bad about it, but in that situation I would of gone for it, and had I lost the woman of my dreams, to this day I'd feel justified in making that decision.

Mr. Kennedy

That's because you only care about yourself and have the maturity of an 11 year old, especially when you do petty stuff like give someone negative rep just because you recieved negative rep. :shit:

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