Do you ever feel gay?

Jackie Pies

I doubt tooo many guys will admit (truthfully, not just jokes) that sometimes they feel a little feminine or perhaps gay.

to clear up any confusion , I am not really completely gay, I like to look at women, but overall I can't be w/ a woman b/c their personalities drive me nuts. but honestly I've always thought of myself as more masculine.. (if I was actually a man, I'd have so many illegitimate children right now it's not even funny) rather than as feminine. sometimes when I do girly things, I feel a little gay for some reason. so I don't wear makeup, I don't do anything w/ my hair but brush it and put it in pigtails, I don't get all dolled up, and I drive a stick.

and then there's Craig, ,, while I physically prefer women, my disgust for marriage, 'true love' and talking/cuddling led me to men (and god damn most of you men are ugly, and what's w/ the ballsack,, why do you need extra flappy??).
but some of you will say, but Jackie, you find Raven, Christian, and Spike attractive. yes, that is true, I also find Craig attractive (Craig had a body similar to Spike's when I met him, but I've fattened him up by about 30 lbs.)

so I don't know. oddly enough, checking out men makes me feel a little gay b/c I feel girly about it, wheras checking out women makes me feel manly, just like having a steak a cigarette and driving my stick.

I'm so confused...
what do you do that makes you feel girly and a little gay?,
or for the ladies, how do you feel?

Dr. Giganto

Sports Moderator

I feel gay when I go shopping, and when I dress up to go out. I'm kinda "metro"

Reilly

Haha, where has this stemmed from

I can admit being able to tell if another man is handsome or not...

In most cases, men who refuse to be able to admit how handsome another man is, they have confused thoughts. They seem irritated when asked, and uncomfortable about their sexuality. They are afraid of being 100% **** suckers, when the truth is they probably just have a thought here or there, and could easily get past it.

Then of course there are men who genuinely find the sight of another man disgusting, they cant see a beauty or difference in one man from another. To me its pretty simple and no big deal.

But the thought of kissing, touching, it sickens me out. I can tell when a guy is better or worse looking then another guy, but I dont admire their good looks or enjoy looking at them.

I hate doing something small that makes me feel a little girly. If Im not focussing during football and I run half heartadly, I feel like such a little girl and have to adjust myself quickly, I dont think I look girly though as surely someone would've made fun of these rare lapses. Or sometimes I'll laugh in a gay way, or say something that sounds kind of gay. I dont mind though, just feels weird.

All in all I dont really do anything girly or gay, Ive never cared or noticed much about clothes, makeup, hairstyles (Unless its worthy of making fun of) and apart from small un-noticeable things that only I would notice, Im quite manly. Yet pretty.

Give it time

Jackie Pies

yes, shopping makes me feel gay too. I'm beginning to hate the metro look. if I have to be w/ a man, I want him to be more rugged. no more of this shaving and waxing body hair, sheesh, and no more highlights in the hair.

but you know, I used to know this guy who pretended he was gay, he'd tell girls that he preferred guys and what not and the girls would go nuts over him. he got all sorts of pu ssy just by wearing glam rock clothes and telling people he'd give a little head. I was always amazed, but I've also had chick friends who love that look. I just don't get it. if a guy told me he loved the co ck, I'd be scared off. (esp b/c guys are already likely to cheat, if they really are bi, they have even more potential people to cheat on you with.)

Dr. Giganto

Sports Moderator

It's funny, because a lot of times I'll comment on how a guy considered good-looking is ugly, and people will think i'm being one of those insecure guys, when in actuality I have no problem admitting a guy is good-looking.

For instance, I have a female friend who is obsessed with Vin Diesel. Although he is in great shape, I think his facial features are simply ugly, and she accused me of being a closet homosexual or insecure about my sexuality.

Another thing that I comment on is how "feminine" looking men are considered attractive now. Like, beanpole-skinny guys, slightly effeminate guys. I think it's a ridiculous trend. I personally think women should be attracted to "manly" men.

Miakal

I once felt gay so I immediately gave myself a beating.

Reilly

Miakals joking hides all the insecurities =/

Give it time

Disco Raheem

I am the effiminate guy Mister D is talking about.

What can I say? I'm just emo.

Disco Raheem

Also, I do the fake-gay thing Jackie was talking about a lot.

I tell most girls that I'm bi and that I suck a bit of **** occasionaly, but the truth is I've never really done anything of interest with a guy. Chicks dig it though.

Mr. Kennedy

I can admit if a man looks look and when I was younger I had a passing though now and then I could never a a relationship with another male.

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