That cute girl in my Spanish class..

Blitzkrieg

Ok..here's the deal. There is this really cute girl in my Spanish class. I've never really talked to her before, and I never seen her before either until I took this class. I'm usually ok with women, you know at parties and when they come talk to me, or when I get hooked up by a friend or whatever, but I don't know how to approach this chick. I want to make a good impression, but I don't want to blow it you know? So any ideas of how I can get closer to her without looking weird?

Erin

Monk's First Lady

Go and sit beside her in class, make eye contact and smile. Make her wonder if your interested in you or not, don't do it too quick.

Freak

Don't do the sit-beside unless you're confident you can make it go somewhere. There's nothing worse than sitting next to someone, saying a couple sentences each, and then nothing for a whole hour. That would just set you way back.

I'm having a similar situation with a girl, Anna, in one of my Writing classes. I've decided she's probably the hottest girl on campus. We've talked a few times, but mostly it's just a wave-and-smile type of deal. She's also 21 though, and she just got back from having spent two years in Australia, so I'm so far out of my league it's not funny. She's just fucking hot, is all.

If you do get talking to this chick, Blitz, don't ask her name until after the conversation. "Oh, I'm Blitzkrieg by the way..."

Erin

Monk's First Lady

Alright I'm going to think both of your cases over, and give you some better advice tomorrow from a girl's perspective.

AudioSavior

Talk to someone else in the class that might know here and first find out if she has a bf or not. If she does than there is no point in even bothering. You can also find out other stuff like what she does etc and have a better idea if she might be your type and her yours.

Randy Orton

WC's Resident Alchoholic

since its spanish class go up and say, hola senorita. ¿tu quieres ir a mi casa y chupalad mi bicho?

thirty7

Yeah definitely do that. Way too embarassing if you're talking to a girl for an hour or so and then she turns around and tells you shes taken.

I wish my sex life was like ECW, first you get a One Night Stand followed by 2 months of nostalgic orgasms and then 6 months of constant sucking.

Toss

I suck with girls.

I spent the key years of a man's "tuning" evolution with a girlfriend so I never had to worry about picking up (or being rejected for that matter). Since we've broken up, I've found that the 5 girls I've been with were all originally friends of mine, so the relationship was already established and I didn't have to pull out all the stops. Broadening my female social circle is like borderline critical for me right now, I just find it really tough. Being shitfaced helps, but I can't really stroll around uni going to classes in an eternal drunken stuper.

Toss

PS Sorry I can't help

Disco Raheem

My advice...

Follow her home from class a few times. Get to know where she lives, what she does etc etc. Find out things about her; break into her house and go through her things, and make a few other inquiries.

Now that you've got a bit of knowledge, ring her up at random intervals and talk to her about highly personal. Tell her where she is, and where she plans on going next; this will prove that you're obviously the kinda guy that will take an interest in her life. Chicks like that. Also, tell her about all the things you'd like to do to her. Chicks love phone sex, even if they don't act like it.

Finally, it's time to reveal yourself to your new lover. This moment has to be picked just right. Try when she's working through somewhere dark and remote, to keep the romance level high.

Then stick her one for me.