Could you Screw your Best Friends EX?

Chewy

Legend:
EX = Crystal
Best Friend = Brad

So I dropped by Crystals today for a quick visit and one of the topics we were talking about were one night stands. She started talking about how every guy she fucks ends up with hurt feelings on the guys part (aka they get attached), She then asked if I wanted to be her fuck buddy, I said well I don't know if thats right.....[now wait before asking whats your problem with that is]........cause Brads your Ex Who he had a kid with you and shit....[But before I blew all my chances I threw in...]....But you thought about it lots....[No Lies on the next part]....she replyed I thought about you whe I Masterbate.....[because I use to live with them]....and I dident watch you when you Masterbated when I had the chance because I wanted to see it when you and brad were going to tag me when you were high on Ectasy...[We made plans when we were high on Ectasy and everyone was all go]....But I then said I can ask him and see what he says....[Rather then him saying im a back stabbin bitch]....But he would probably be all go for it because they talked lots of times before about me fucking her while he watches while they were going out....its just different now with them not together.

What Should I do?

The catches are we cannot have any feelings, its a fuck and leave, it cannot hurt the friendship in anyway, and all that other shit.

Blitzkrieg

I got lost in that paragraph.. sorry.. But I'm not totally useless so lets see..

Brad is your best friend, correct? I'd have to know more about this guy and how much he would care if you did it.. I mean, it sounds like you don't want anything out of it (relationship wise) and she doesn't either, so it could work out alright depending on what this guy's like..

One more thing I'd like to throw out there though.. Often times, women will say they are ok with being your fuck buddy but then later on it turns into them wanting more then that and it can hurt the friendship, so you have to make sure it's what she wants also..

Tyler Durden

I wouldn't tap it. Too much history, situation is too messed up. Actually, if you were totally in love with her and went to see him the whole situation would be cooler and could progress, but just fucking her (and he'll find out) is just going to make things messier.

Chewy

Shes making all the rules...Shes the one that said "I want nothing more then sex"...Shes the one thats bitching about the men being clingy, shes also the one thats saying Brad wants to watch me rail her, if she decides that she wants more shes bracking all HER rules which I doubt will happen, so I guess if anything I think it would be me being the downer in the fling. Ive done it before and I did it fine (kindof), I know all the rules and that if she decides to fuck someone else.... so be it.... I can't say shit and I can't feel anything towards it. I'll be fine because all I need is a fuck anyway...I don't need anything solid....Im not in that state of mind for anything serious....I have a pretty full calander coming and I don't see anything besides a good fuck every once in a while to fill the Void that completes me.

Well im not in love with her, but we are good friends. I don't really see a future between us really....By the way it looks were just two people that need a little somethin somethin on the side of our schooling. We both have alot of shit on our backs....I for one am trying to fight my endless battle with addiction to drugs, trying to hold down a job, and go to school this september, so a GF will be on the back buner til this is all done.

I know thing is going to be sooooo wrong and is going to cause soooo much shit between me and brad, but at the same time I have a feeling is going to be worth it....I havent been laid in a long long time and I need this BAD. Being the good Boy scout isent selling my cookies any faster then if I just steal D-K's Wallet and buy them myself...catch my drift.

Tyler Durden

Women that say this sort of stuff are to be avoided at all costs. Trust me!!

emmathe37th

You can't have a fuckbuddy if there ARE strings attached. This woman WILL get too emotionally involved. She's a woman. No way, fella. Stay riiight outta there.

shep1982

i would say go for it beause she is the one putting down all the rules.. if she says it is nothing more than fuck then it is ok... it is not hurting nothing buy doing it. so i would say CHEWY RAIL HER!!!!

Randy Orton

WC's Resident Alchoholic

i'd go for it. since she is setting the rules she will be going against her rules if she wants more.

Tyler Durden

Lol, Chewy the decision is yours. I think Emma and I are giving you some wise advice here, but if you choose our way.....you don't get laid. So I kinda know which way you're leaning toward here!! You just want us to help you justify it you evil little chinaman you

emmathe37th

Oh, and I'm sorry, but she's called CRYSTAL. I mean, is that not proof enough that you should stay clear? She sounds like she should be in The Supremes.

If you want to get laid, find someone in a bar and have a one night stand. Then you don't have to put up with any hassle with best friends, friendships, blah blah blah. Fuckbuddies that you don't have any kind of history with are fine but your best friend's ex? Psh...hassle, hassle, hassle.