Where did I call you a dumb ass? I dont call people dumbasses, I prefer the term fucktards. Leave it to you to mistake something as simple as Joe being fat, not being an issue, as you being a dumbass. Do you have self-esteem issues or something?
When your final question is asking about weight it shows that your main objective is to talk about his weight, try restating your question for the purpose of the thread which you want. Right now your question is only asking about his weight, thus showing your only major problem is his extra fat.