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Originally Posted by Felix Hm, been a long long (did I mention long) time since I've had to deal with this, but I think I'm pretty educated in the subject. IMO, you wait. Don't get me wrong, there's alot of girls / women that can handle break ups, and jump right into another relationship, but to play it safe, and to make sure she isn't just dating you to replace a void from the breakup. She may need a break from guys in general just to clear her thoughts. Give it a little time, maybe let her know you are interested in her, but want to give her that time before going full steam ahead and trying to make it a relationship between you and her...
Anyhow, thats just my opinion. Take it for what it's worth. |
Good post. I always used to TRY and do this but either (a) I would mess up by trying to jump on them at the first opportunity or (b) I'd play it like you said and then within 48 hours she'd have hooked up with a new guy and they'd be married within a month!
I fully realise that this doesn't help a bit!