| One of my closest mates and I both had girlfriends at one stage.
My relationship was quite special whilst his was kind more of a sex-based relationship, never really going to amount to anything. I always thought his bird was one of the best looking girls I knew though, and my girlfriend at the time knew that and was always "worried" about it. We'd hang out heaps and talk at parties etc., kind of like what The Bull was on about. A bit of tension developed between us over time.
After we'd both broken up, she had a party and wouldn't let me leave until everyone else had and I'd been to her room. It was the most obvious fucking hook-up ever, but I stupidly went along with it because I was mad for play and she was, as I said, really gorgeous. She said after we'd been mucking around for a while that she knew it would happen from the first time she met me. I guess I kind of felt the same way - sometimes you just can't ignore those urges. Anyway, it happened and both our ex-'s found out. My mate said it never bothered him but things have never really been the same. My Ex flipped out and I was worried I'd fucked our chances up for good, but eventually we got back together for a while before she drove me insane again.
Bottom line, sometimes there's just something irresistable about a certain girl, who, more often than not, is inevitably the WRONG girl. I would recommend making every effort possible to surpress those feelings. I guess it would destroy me if my mate had have done it with my ex in question.
But then again, WHAT IF SHES THE ONE!? |