| It depends how you play it. If you have a dorky friend go up and talk to some girls and you kind of slide in, steal the heat, then you'll only look better.
I usually only go out with one other dude and we typically don't cross anything together. If we're having trouble we'll bring in the other as a last resort but typically the other is moving in elsewhere.
I also think it's GOOD to start talking to their ugly/dorky friends. This draws attention away from the girl you want, who is probably used to it anyway, and to someone else. Since it's their friend who they are better than (or just their friend) they'll want to come in and get in some of the action. The more you deny them the more they'll want to talk to you.
The ugliest/dorkiest girl is the easiest to win over in the group. She's probably the one girl that the others actually trust, too. And that's what most girls want...a sense of trust. You become that guy then you have the key to their pinkest panties. |