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Omega · 06-10-2006, 01:43 AM

Muwhahahaha I found a bunch of ideas on the Internet, and i put them in one big...thingamabober lol:

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How To Ask A Girl Out On Date
You met her, you talked to her, you got her number and, so far, everything is going great. But now comes that awkward point, …
How To Ask A Girl Out For Date
If it is a girl you are really interested in your mind might be filled with doubts and insecurities :
What if she says no ?
Am I trying to move too fast ?
Maybe she thought we were just friends and she will be offended if I ask.
All of these fears, although natural and common, are dumb. If you want a date with this girl you have the right to ask her out. Don't allow your life to be ruled by doubt and insecurity.
So what are the best ways to ask a girl out ?
There are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.
Optimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.

#1. Saying to a girl "I like you" does work. It lets them know your feelings, and they can respond to that with whatever they want.
#2. Well, the best advice I can give is to take care of yourself, and be a gentleman to her. Girls like a guy who cares about his appearance. Also, being a gentleman is the one sure-fire way to impress most girls. Hold the door for her, carry her books to class, all of that 'corny' stuff. Don't be too clingy though...that would be annoying. Just watch her responses and see what kind of behavior gets you points with her.
#3. Simply be yourself. But take care that "yourself" has some good habits. Anyway if a girl needs you to impress her by doing stupid things that you usually donÂ´t do... go find another, because she doesnÂ´t love you... she wants you to be the kind of boy that she wants... but youÂ´re not.

#4. Just be casual, don't exert yourself, try to remain calm. The more nervous you become, the more she'll regret being around you. The fact of life is that you don't need to impress someone to have them start to like you. You just kind of grow on them. The best way is to start a conversation about things the both of you like and hopefully work off of that. The worst thing you can do is stand around and not let her know. When you're ready, ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?
#5. Treat her like anyone else. Pretend she's a guy for a while for all i care. Now, to get to know a person, u gotta have a conversation with her. So the next time you meet her, in a completely casual voice say that

"I'm heading to after school (or any other time you choose. Weekend is good) to relax and have some tea. You should join me. Ok. Cya then."

Then when you meet her for drinks, act as if you've known her for the past ten years and that she's your best friend. No need to act like u just met her and want to know all about her childhood, family n that stuff. Humans are wierd. They follow your lead. If u act like she's an old friend, she'll feel infinitely more comfortable with you than if ur interrogating her and she feels like its an interview. Crack a few jokes, get her smiling. Don't hang out too long. You'll run out of things to say. 20 minutes, 30 minutes tops. Then say that u got an appointment or that u hv to pick up ur brother. Whatever. End of the thing, ask for her number. I guarantee u that it'll work.

MOST IMPORTANT THING: Act like she's just a friend. A best friend, but still just a friend.