| Hi, I'm a newbie, a KYN reader since the days of jimmyvan.com. Though I'm usually a lurker, I feel compelled to write: I did cheat, once, on a girlfriend about 9 years ago. At the time I realized she (my g/f) was not going to be the love of my life, yet I still felt really bad about it. We broke up a few months later over other issues, and turns out she cheated on me before I ever cheated on her. So then I didn't feel as bad anymore. Irregardless, I've never, ever cheated on a girl since then. I guess I can't handle the guilt and all the BS that comes with it. Shango's got it right -- the guilt *is* a killer. Not worth it. |